Love can be the most beautiful thing in the world that a human can experience. But it can also be the most painful feeling too. Ever loved someone so madly that you gave them your everything and dreamt of living the rest of the life with that one special person? You enjoyed being around them and they made you feel special but gradually you feel the magic has started to fade away. One fine day, you would realise that things aren’t the way it was before and it would seem too late to realise when exactly it all went wrong.
That really can be heartbreaking especially when the person begins to get annoyed by your actions rather than feeling loved. But what should you do when you feel they don’t feel the way like you do?
Love is simple, yet complicated. Whether it is simple or complicated, entirely depends on the individuals who are in love. But happens when they really stopped liking you?
They avoid you for no reason
Yes, they try to avoid you despite your efforts to bond with them. This is a way to signal that you no longer interest them. You walk that extra mile to just be with them, try to talk with them but they begin to avoid your struggles to be with them. They begin to lie.
They don’t value you anymore
They know you know the truth, yet they lie at your face. They want you to understand that they don’t value you anymore in their life anymore. They have other new priorities than you. They make you feel you’re not worth their time.
They hide things from you
They don’t let you know what’s going on in their life. They shield their private life from you making you feel like an outsider. You begin to be unaware of what’s changed in their personal life making you no longer fit in their inner circle.
They blame you for everything
They try to put you at fault for everything. They make you feel it’s you who are at fault and makes you believe you are the reason why things are falling apart. This is an indirect trigger for you to break down and make you to central reason why things are not like before.
What makes it more worse is that you really would have no clue if it is worth staying in their life or not. Things would have become dark all of a sudden making you blind not knowing how to go ahead with it. But there’s always a way to deal with things. Whether you would give-up or hang-on, it’s completely your choice and how important the other person is to you, but remember to own your actions. the first can be tough initially but help you overcome the toxicity of that relationship while the latter can make you feel worth it but could also break you down into more pieces. But be prepared to take both things, no matter if you had put in your efforts or not. In the end, all that matters is you don’t regret for putting in more efforts or for not putting those efforts.
