I have recently defended my dissertation. It was not my wish to defend since I was only three and a half years into my PhD. The reason was my advisor was pushing me to graduate. Even though I thought I had more things to do. However, I had enough paper to graduate, and my committee members were more than impressed with my work.
However, the drama started after passing the defence. We had one paper pending. Now, he is blackmailing me that he will not sign my thesis until I finish the whole paper. I have not found a job yet. I could not due to extreme pressure and torture for the past three years. I will need to focus on paper rather than looking for a job. I have a family with one kid who I need to support.
What can I do at this point? Is it worth it to complain against him at this last stage? Will I need his recommendation in future? Any suggestion is appreciated.