Short Answer:Short Answer:
Get Windows 10 Pro or better
With the aforementioned versions of Windows 10, you can get better control over auto-updates, although if you ignore too long, it will get less willing to wait.
Less Desirable Answer:
Even with Windows 10 Home you can get control over the auto-updates, by marking your internet connection as Metered. In this case Windows will not auto download the updates, and thus cannot autoupdate.
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