I would have thought it unlikely that a single question would be relevant to three sites - particularly the three sites you mention.
Looking at the FAQs for Android -
Android - Stack Exchange is for enthusiasts, power users, and regular people too using the Android operating system.
Android - Stack Exchange is not for programming questions. Please ask your developer questions on Stack Overflow.
we see straight away that there is no overlap between the two sites. A question relevant and on topic for one site is automatically off topic for the other. Of course your question could be off topic on both.
As you've stated in a comment that your "question is not about development" then it's off topic for Stack Overflow so that leaves a choice between Android and Programmers'.
We can also see that if it's on topic for Android it's probably off topic for Programmers' as Programmers' is for questions about the development process (amongst other things).
While this answer is directed at the three sites in your original question the same logic applies (most of the time) for your broader question. The only sites were there is significant overlap are Super User and Ask Ubuntu, Unix & Linux and Apple - but even there your question should only be posted on one site.